How can you criticize my personality?

Maybe becuase of what happens in your past. You want that feeling of security and that someone loves you. Your wife could like treating you this way because you dont oppose her and becuase shes nurturing but dont le her make all the decisions if you dont agree. Try giving some opinions so that she knows your trying to help. Maybe u could even ask her opinion on this. Try making your own decisions slowly but dont make rash decisions.